Stand up, and stand strong in believing that your voice for your horse is often right.
“Speak up even if your voice shakes.” Dolly Everett.
Sometimes things happen when we are under the guidance of those in the equine industry who should know better, or who might ‘know more’ than us...,and it’s hard to make the call in being confident that sometimes, it’s not the right place for you, or right for your horse.
I want you to know, that is it absolutely okay to make that call at any time when your horse is in the hands of an equine professional.
It is okay to say stop them. It is okay to leave with your horse. It is okay to say “no this is not what I want to do, or have done with my horse.”
Overwhelm, and excessive intensity is no way to train a horse in anything, and risk management and injury prevention is the duty of care of every single instructor, coach and equine professional.
In fact, it should be the the utmost imperative focus of any coach, instructor or trainer because injury as the result of dominance and fear based training becomes cognitive trauma fear based responses and stops the learning process successfully in it's tracks.
Instructors, coaches and trainers have a responsibility to understand; 1. How horses learn. 2. Horse behaviour. 3. The inherent nature of the horse.
Sure. Horses are dangerous, they do silly things to themselves and make unfortunate choices at times, but it is a trainers responsibility to never ever be the creator of that injury, the instigator of situation that can occur in, and always aim to reduce the risk of it occurring from correct training with comprehensive understanding of the horses cognitive capacities.
So, I have your back. I have it, and I can think of many of my equine professional peers that stand behind you in spirit in knowing that it is okay to say NO. It is okay to say STOP.
It is okay to stand up for what you know is right, and stop anything happening to your horse that you believe is putting it in harms way.
Trust yourself. You won’t get this wrong, and you have any army of support behind you in spirit.
If you don’t feel like you can trust them, you never should feel like you have to entrust them with your horses safety, wellbeing and training.
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**There seems to be some confusion, particularly amongst those who have not read the post associated with the photo's as to why I have chosen to post the image of the horse's leg kinesio taped. Contextually, the link is that the taping was done - due to the horse being injured under the duty of care of a professional trainer. The opinions expressed on this post are irrelevant to the use, or the application of kinesio taping. The image is for the purposes of contextual correlation between injuries occurring, and poor training conduct. Please reach out if you have any concerns over why this photo has been chosen, and posted.
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